I just pulled and checked my plugs, all four were exactly the same, 0.028. Now I can stop lying awake nights worrying that the factory gremlins might have put a random set of gaps in.
I had called my local Chevy service dept to arrange an oil change, and asked about checking the gaps while they had it in. They did some research and could find no notice whatsoever about a problem, and said they would have to charge me to look. I offered to make a bet with them, I'd pay if they were all gapped the same, but they would pay if there were any differences, and they were game. But I would have had to leave the car overnight so they could work on it cold, and in the end it was simpler to just do the job myself.
I'm still interested in whether increasing the gap to say .030 or .032 might help performance, but in the end I left them at the factory setting since there doesn't seem to be a consensus, other than that -different- numbers would be "bad"